“Where’s good RP?”
I’ve been pondering on what to write for my next post. It has been a while since I wrote one, a long while, and I just guessed that I had exhausted my reasons to rant during my rant fest last summer/fall. I’d discussed and gone over every single one of the things that pissed me off in RP. I know I’d say I’d go over all of my ‘pet-peeves’, and I haven’t gotten to them, so maybe this will be my ice breaker.
I am also going to try to write a more mature, less-ranty piece, as I really want to make my point here, and I do have a few things to say on this topic.
And well, who the fuck am I kidding? It won’t be intentional, but I’ll probably be as acidic, sarcastic and jaded as ever. So here goes nothing.
For as long as I’ve been roleplaying, and in as many places that I’ve roleplayed, one of the questions I get asked the most is “how’s roleplay there?” or “RP any good there?”
I also want to note before I continue that neither Grammarly nor Word 2013 like the words roleplay, roleplayed, roleplayer, etc. It keeps wanting me to say “role-played”, not to mention that it keeps trying to correct “RP” to “rape”, and considering it’s SL, it may not be too far off. But they just don’t know us ar-pee-ing peoples. By the way, “Grammarly”, that’s not a real word either, so fuck you.
Okay, so on topic.
I’ve been roleplaying in a sim for the past four months (if you know me you know which one). Like a lot of sims, it opened with a big bang, floods of people, then went through a strained lull, and now it’s picking up again.
I stayed through the lull. Other friends were saying “it’s dead” and trying to coax me to leave. But I didn’t. I tend to “marry” a sim. Put in my prim roots, and hang on until the bitter end when my prims are returned and SL tells me the place is no longer available when I try to tp in.
Maybe when you are done reading this post you’ll understand why.
Today a friend asked me again how was the RP there, asked me to be honest, and I had to think a moment about my answer.
If you’ve read my stuff, you might have read a piece where I rained hell on someone for criticizing RP sims. This person took it upon themselves to rate sims on a 1-5 scale on various subjects. Build, Backstory, RP Style, etc. Whatever.
So really, ask yourselves this first. What is a SIM?
A SIM is no more than a backdrop, the setting. You review everything about this place before you decide to join. You walk around, see the build, you read the rules, the backstory, etc. Right? You have to have a feel for it, that much is true. If the place is not appealing to YOU, you won’t want to RP there. You look to the environment for inspiration.
So then the real question isn’t if the sim looks good. It can look painfully horrid to some, and fantastic to others—the question is can YOU write a story for a character in this place?
That is how I explained it. I want a story about my character, in this PLACE. The story isn’t ABOUT the place, gentle reader-rp-friend. The story is about my character. That is RP, right? You write for YOUR character. So, whether the Sim is full or not, I still have a story. My character lives there.
“What’s the book about?”
“Oh, it’s about a woman who lives… “
“It’s about a guy who goes to this…”
Sound familiar?
Now, now, before you start ranting, it is true that the happenings on a Sim (or lack thereof) would affect my character and yes, we do depend on the sim’s administration to provide them, and of course, no one was to RP alone… like… monologs and shit. That would suck really bad. That would suck like… like… like notecarding chores on a Gorean sim when no one is around. That would suck ass.
Yet when I was asked if the RP in this place was “good RP” and was asked for an “honest answer” I said:
“Well, “good” is relative. Honest answer. I’ve had good rp with just two people in a nearly empty sim (not this one, btw). It has potential. In any sim people will come and go. I got a whole blog full of shitty rp. There will be shitty rp and good rp, and honestly, all of us that claim to be good rp’rs wander about SL, sim after sim, LOOKING for good RP. Sometimes we find it, and its good for a bit, and then we, myself very much included, start finding fault. “Good” rpr’s are spread out. So… I like the theme, I like the environment. There are no perfect sims and rp out there… so you MAKE rp good and you fuck the rest. My RP, my story, is about MY CHARACTER… and it spreads outwards yes… but it’s about my character.”
As an admin in a few sims, I also witnessed this phenomenon of roleplayers seemingly needing to be hand-held through plots. I don’t know about you, but I roleplay because I like reading AND writing. Even when I’m not roleplaying I’m either reading a book or writing– whether it be a blog post or other stories that may never make it to print, I write.
Maybe for some it is necessary to be a star on SIM, not just their character’s story. Maybe some seek recognition and validation through RP. Maybe some have the need to be the hottest, the most badass, and the most renowned name on sim. Maybe some have a need to infiltrate other people’s stories and take them over—which only reminds me of She-Who-Must-Not-Be-Mentioned (if I’m gonna keep this blog post sane).
Me? I want to be the star of my own story. My character is the protagonist. Coming from chat-room RP, where there was no visual backdrop, maybe I’m a bit more forgiving when a sim is a little slow. But this type of storytelling is like a circle to me, with me in the center. As I move around, my circle overlaps someone else’s circle, but it’s still their circle, their story, and mine is mine. I’m only an extra in their story. The chick crossing the street in the background or the girl at the donut shop with five minutes of screentime. And I’m good with that because I rock my story. Do you really need 30 people around you to tell a story? Maybe… maybe you don’t have a story at all and just leech off of others. Are you so unfulfilled in your RP needs? Is it because your RP is reactive as opposed to proactive? Does your story suck without a bunch of people for you to feed off of?
Maybe you don’t have a story at all.
Think of when a sim goes through one of these lulls. Almost all at once 10-15 people will leave, sometimes more. All claiming to be bored. “RP sucked there.” Serioulsy? You all couldn’t find RP with each other? There was no way to make your stories overlap each others like those chain reaction TV ads or something?
Roleplaying is interactive writing, is it not? The difference between me writing out this book on my own and controlling all the characters is that in roleplay I get the surprise and ‘adlib’ improvisation of having others to interact with and this is stimulating and fun and I love it. But you know what? Even if I didn’t have that, I’d still have a story to write. But, I want to share it with you. I want you in it, I want to see what you can bring to it–but please read all my other blog posts firsts so you don’t annoy me–Just Kidding… sorta… I’m rocking my story, even if in your story I’m nothing but the chick crossing the street in the background, or the girl at the donut shop that spills your coffee as she serves it to you.
Now the question still is, “where is good RP?”
My answer?
In your head.